We All Said We Would Become Something… What Happens When Childhood Ambition Meets Economic Reality?
Joy Olu-Ajayi Image Credit: Pinterest It always started in the same way, almost like a ritual everyone expected but never questioned. A teacher would pause in the middle of a lesson, marker still in hand, and ask the familiar question: “What do you want to be when you grow up?” And something about that moment always changed the room. It was as though every child suddenly remembered they had something important to say. Hands would shoot up immediately. No hesitation, no doubt, no fear of being wrong. The answers came out with a kind of certainty that only childhood can produce: doctor, lawyer, banker, engineer. Sometimes, it went further, more detailed, more imaginative: “I will own my hospital,” “I will travel the world,” “I will build big houses for my parents.” And in that moment, no one interrupted that belief. Not the teacher, not the classmates, not even reality. It all felt normal. It all felt possible. At home, the same dreams were repeated, and this time, ...